There’s always something to howl about.

Jerry Rubin Died A Stockbroker

The point of my title might not be obvious, and it’s not meant to discount youthful exuberance — God knows we need youthful exuberance. However, Peter Pan and Michael Jackson aside, we all grow up. What does that mean — grow up? I take its meaning as maturation, becoming wiser, thinking long term, becoming responsible to self and others.

Organizations, even countries, like individuals, seem to go through the growing up process — from infancy, to childhood to adolescence to young adulthood to middle age to the twilight years. If companies and countries can continuously reinvent themselves between young adulthood and middle age that’s a good thing. The analogy with individuals breaks down here, for the most part, because individuals can only “remodel” so much before the realities of age take over completely. However, individuals can stay fresh in mind and spirit for quite a long time through constant learning, reflection and openness. This freshness of mind and spirit coupled with maturity and wisdom is an attractive combination in individuals — these are the people I gravitate towards.

RE internet companies seem to be in their mid twenties. There is an emphasis, a feel, a persona, if you will, of “youth” with companies like Redfin, Zillow, Trulia and the rest. What is their phiolosphy? It’s like most 20 somethings; it’s a mixture of style, doing good, distrust of tradition, worship of change, but very little mature, rational long term vision. Unlike Realtor.com, they play their music loud, dress in t shirts and jeans, talk funny and love to give stuff away to their buds.

They are the RE version of Google starting out, just doing stuff with no business model, having fun, being different with an attitude and declaring like grandiose young mini-gods they will “Do No Evil“. Oh, I’m sure there are grown ups developing plans and thinking about making money, but this is the sense, the feel, I get from these companies.

Do they have to “grow up”? Can they survive in the business world by hanging out with their friends, creating stuff and giving it away? They will make more and more friends, that’s for sure, but can they make money. Google eventually had to do more than avoiding doing evil — they had to monetize their efforts. Redfin, of course, is monetizing their efforts, but they’ll have to prove their model will bring in enough money to survive. You can be popular in the public eye by saving the public money, but investors’ eyes are also looking and saying “Show me the money!” I think they can do it on volume, but their immature service structure will have to be built from more visionary, mature plans.

Zillow and the rest can get deep pockets to fund their youthful experiments but at some point there will have to be a return, some evidence they can make money by having fun and giving stuff away. Ads? I don’t think so. I think ads are one part of it, but there has to be some special value added services that are unique and useful enough for consumers to pay for. I mean, if having fun creating stuff and giving it away can create enough ad money to be successful, you’ll see a bunch of companies playing air guitars all across the web making it all a little thin. How is one to rise to the top and build a business model that will be the standard.

First there is chaos, then there is experimentation and then there’s a standard. Who will set the standard? How will it be set that’s profitable? Growing up is painful and entails hard choices. At some point the RE companies will have to make hard business choices that are based on real finances, on models that can be sustained. Somebody, somehwere along the line will have to PAY. Oh my God, now you’ve ruined the whole thing. We were having fun until you brought the almighty dollar into it. Does it mean everyone will have to wear a suit and be on time at business meetings? Do we have to sell out to The Man and become corporate lackeys? But people love us, we’re doing good, we’re making it real, man!

Yes, but while you’re making it real can you make a little money while you’re at it?

Damn, I knew it would come to this — it always comes down to making money. I’ve had it – I’m outta here — I’m going to where they still have fun creating stuff and giving it away.

Seriously, though, I think these companies can have their cake and eat it too. They can have fun, create stuff and give it away, but they need to build a higher level service that is charged for — a unique service that is personalized and immediately useful. It could be along the lines of relocation services built on personal sites, packaged with personalization and local context, or it could be something totally different, but I think a higher level that earns a fee for use will be necessary.

It’s time to grow up, yet keep the youthful exuberance. Money making is a real concern, and not near as dirty as imagined.