{"id":1227,"date":"2007-03-27T21:09:00","date_gmt":"2007-03-28T04:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/?p=1227"},"modified":"2007-03-28T02:15:53","modified_gmt":"2007-03-28T09:15:53","slug":"egoism-in-action-how-you-can-grow-and-prosper-at-work-and-everywhere-even-in-the-face-of-hostile-criticism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/1227\/egoism-in-action-how-you-can-grow-and-prosper-at-work-and-everywhere-even-in-the-face-of-hostile-criticism\/","title":{"rendered":"Egoism in action: How you can grow and prosper, at work and everywhere, even in the face of hostile criticism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is email I had from Corey Hague, one of the founders of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.buyerhunt.com\/home\" target=\"_blank\">BuyerHunt.com<\/a>. This is important to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/?cat=24\" target=\"_blank\">the philosophical issues I&#8217;ve tried to raise<\/a>, and Corey agreed to let me talk about this in the weblog:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Well Greg, I am out of ideas, slowly becoming &#8220;zestless&#8221; and looking for some inspiration. A couple of months ago a friend and I created a website, www.buyerhunt.com. As agents ourselves, we designed the site with (progressive) agents in mind. Despite our best efforts, to date, most of the agent-derived response we get is negative and is often personal and unrelated in nature. And these agents aren&#8217;t giving the site a shot. They visit the homepage, make a quick decision and write scathing responses (usually in regards to the fact that we give joe schmoe buyer and seller access). All this after we got the &#8220;stamp of approval&#8221; from Inman News, who named us one of the best new web ideas for 2007. It just doesn&#8217;t seem right. I am a big fan of your blog, and am awe-struck by the manner in which you are able to hold your own in the face of often ludicrous and nonsensical banter.<\/p>\n<p>Though I pride myself on being a young (25), determined, forward-thinking individual with plenty of family-infused and &#8220;real time&#8221; real estate experience, I am for the first time finding it difficult to brush off the aforementioned criticisms and personal attacks. I guess my question is simply this&#8230; How do you do it? You lay your heart, soul and ideas on the line and so often have them thrown right back in your face. And yet everyday, I wake up and see that you have written again, unscathed and unabashed. I want to continue to be a progressive, trailblazing agent&#8230; but am starting to see a side of the business that I would rather not be privy to.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Without intending to be flippant, I don&#8217;t notice things like that. In any sort of reaction to anything &#8212; positive or negative &#8212; all I am listening for is the resonance of reason.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s this first: The reaction, whatever it is, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/1227\/egoism-in-action-how-you-can-grow-and-prosper-at-work-and-everywhere-even-in-the-face-of-hostile-criticism\/#more-1227\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is email I had from Corey Hague, one of the founders of BuyerHunt.com. This is important to the philosophical issues I&#8217;ve tried to raise, and Corey agreed to let me talk about this in the weblog: Well Greg, I am out of ideas, slowly becoming &#8220;zestless&#8221; and looking for some inspiration. A couple of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,6,5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1227","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"hentry","6":"category-egoism-in-action","7":"category-marketing","8":"category-real-estate","10":"no-featured-image"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":16387,"url":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/16387\/rock-me-mama-egoism-in-action-the-link-from-art-to-human-values-and-back\/","url_meta":{"origin":1227,"position":0},"title":"Rock Me Mama Egoism In Action: The link from art to human values and back.","author":"Greg Swann","date":"September 3, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Everything is all one thing, so this is a video essay about art about music about morality about song-writing about marriage about redemption \u2013 simple stuff. 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