{"id":16766,"date":"2020-08-28T08:04:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T15:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/?p=16766"},"modified":"2020-08-27T01:26:11","modified_gmt":"2020-08-27T08:26:11","slug":"unchained-melody-why-deny-the-obvious-in-the-obvious-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/16766\/unchained-melody-why-deny-the-obvious-in-the-obvious-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Unchained Melody: Why deny the obvious in \u201cThe Obvious Child\u201d?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure no one cares but me, but this song has always bugged me \u2013 art is the stuff that won&#8217;t turn you loose. I can give you a video montage for which a less-raucous rendition could make the soundtrack:<\/p>\n<p>A 4 AM monologue\/soliloquy\/lullabye sung by a grandfather to his fussing grandson. &#8220;The cross is in the ballpark&#8221; is repeated in a way that suggests the theme is an attainable redemption, a message aimed most at Sonny, the narrator&#8217;s son. The instrumentation crowds the poetry, but I like it as a redemption hymn.<\/p>\n<p>The second repetition of &#8220;Why deny the obvious, child?&#8221; seems explicitly religious to me:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Some people say the sky is just the sky<br \/>\nBut I say, &#8220;Why deny the obvious, child?&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>That&#8217;s proof by assertion, but it seems to argue that the whole song is a mildly-enthusiastic pomo paean to the redemptive power of faith. That much is just fun for me, and I like my reading better than any other I&#8217;ve seen.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s just the song. If you take on the back-story that leads to my montage above, there&#8217;s a three-act reconciliation rom-com in there, with a sweet sidebar on fatherhood.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the vitally important obvious fact being denied? What broke up Sonny&#8217;s marriage? And how do the three men in the song go about fixing it?<\/p>\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/hhXMyW2ylgk?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<p>I wrote that much in February (you remember \u2013 huggy, schmoozy, long-forgotten February) on Facebook. Yesterday, I looked at the original video for this song and guess what I saw? Keep in mind that Paul Simon has said &#8220;The cross is in the ballpark&#8221; refers to the Pope&#8217;s visit to Yankee Stadium.<\/p>\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9HKNAhAxMAk?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;start=203&#038;end=207&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t see it, you haven&#8217;t been to Mass lately.<\/p>\n<p>I have no dog in this hunt, although I am always interested in the lies poets tell about their work. But there is a sweet story here about how fathers and sons can fix themselves, buried under all that instrumental camouflage.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a cleaner take. It&#8217;s made by Swedes, so you can understand the words.<\/p>\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/6MLtABKbJrI?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<p>What&#8217;s this song <em>really<\/em> about? Why deny the obvious?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure no one cares but me, but this song has always bugged me \u2013 art is the stuff that won&#8217;t turn you loose. I can give you a video montage for which a less-raucous rendition could make the soundtrack: A 4 AM monologue\/soliloquy\/lullabye sung by a grandfather to his fussing grandson. &#8220;The cross is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,29],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-16766","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"hentry","6":"category-casual-friday","7":"category-group-therapy","9":"no-featured-image"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":18245,"url":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/18245\/overnight-news-not-everyone-is-lucky-enough-to-have-a-good-father-but-each-one-us-is-father-to-the-person-we-would-become\/","url_meta":{"origin":16766,"position":0},"title":"Overnight News: Not everyone is lucky enough to have a good father, but each one us is father to the person we would\u00a0become.","author":"Greg Swann","date":"June 20, 2021","format":false,"excerpt":"Ramblin\u2019 Gamblin\u2019 Willie has a new story for Father's Day, and this of course is a theme Willie pounds on, anyway. 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