This came in as an Ask the Broker question:<\/p>\n
Thanks for having this site.<\/p>\n
We found the house we like and we made the offers and counter offers, finally getting to a place where we got stuck. The seller does not want to came down on her price and we cannot pay more. We are $20,000 apart.<\/p>\n
What I would like is for all parties involved — the buyer, the seller and the two agents — to come to the table to make up the difference.<\/p>\n
Have you heard of a situation like this?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Alas, I have.<\/p>\n
I can be pretty free about using commission dollars to solve problems with transactions, but there are constraints. I will rebate every cent of an untoward commission or bonus, and I don’t hesitate to pay out of my own pocket to make problems go away.<\/p>\n
But: My money is mine to do with as I choose.<\/p>\n
I can address the problem posed by the question with a very simple analogy:<\/p>\n
If your employer decided to buy a company car for his own use, would he be justified in asking you to kick in $1,000 toward the purchase price?<\/p>\n
That clarifies that.<\/i><\/p>\n
But take up the problem as a Realtor or lender: What would be the optimal response to an appeal like this?
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