{"id":18640,"date":"2022-01-03T10:06:23","date_gmt":"2022-01-03T17:06:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/?p=18640"},"modified":"2022-01-03T10:06:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-03T17:06:23","slug":"the-best-way-to-find-the-leadership-youre-looking-for-is-to-be-the-leadership-youre-looking-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/18640\/the-best-way-to-find-the-leadership-youre-looking-for-is-to-be-the-leadership-youre-looking-for\/","title":{"rendered":"The best way to find the leadership you\u2019re looking for is to BE<\/em> the leadership you\u2019re looking\u00a0for."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"silhouette<\/a>I have a story \u2013 late for Christmas, but only for this<\/em> Christmas \u2013 but it is brutal to the point of being gruesome. So far I have been able to keep my distance from it, and we’ll see how that holds up.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, I have nothing, and even the story I have seems like so much embroidery on the void. That the Ruling Class is exterminating we hoi polloi<\/em> is a rebuttable presumption, but which way are you betting in your planning for 2022 and going forward?<\/p>\n

Here is what I can offer for more-sanguine spirits: The leadership you’re looking for is Ds \u2013 Driven first, Sociable second. (If you haven’t mastered DISC-my-way,<\/a> that’s your mistake, easily corrected.) This matters, because every other sort of leader will betray you in due course \u2013 you’re soaking in it.<\/p>\n

I don’t know of anyone in public life who fills the bill, but your best option, in any case, is to be<\/em> the leader you’re looking for \u2013 the person who can be depended upon not to turn on or prey upon innocents.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I have a story \u2013 late for Christmas, but only for this Christmas \u2013 but it is brutal to the point of being gruesome. So far I have been able to keep my distance from it, and we’ll see how that holds up. Meanwhile, I have nothing, and even the story I have seems like […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-18640","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"hentry","6":"category-group-therapy","8":"no-featured-image"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1433,"url":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/1433\/the-stockdale-paradox-i-never-lost-faith-in-the-end-of-the-story\/","url_meta":{"origin":18640,"position":0},"title":"The Stockdale Paradox: “I never lost faith in the end of the story”","author":"Greg Swann","date":"May 15, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"My friend Richard Nikoley dug this up, Admiral Jim Stockdale talking about his experience in a Vietnamese POW camp:\"I never lost faith in the end of the story. 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