{"id":2237,"date":"2007-11-19T00:55:37","date_gmt":"2007-11-19T07:55:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/?p=2237"},"modified":"2007-11-19T01:05:59","modified_gmt":"2007-11-19T08:05:59","slug":"i-didnt-like-the-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/2237\/i-didnt-like-the-question\/","title":{"rendered":"I Didn&#8217;t Like The Question"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A few weeks ago I was part of a &#8220;Surviving In This Market&#8221; panel. I have been a part of this sort of thing many times, locally and nationally. A few minutes into <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"250\" alt=\"question\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/11\/question.jpg\" width=\"250\" align=\"right\" \/>the program I found myself irritated at the question being asked. I usually don&#8217;t even read the questions provided beforehand as I prefer my responses to be completely unscripted. I think I may have surprised everybody (even myself a little) with my answer to the question asked. There were four other panelists and I was seated at the end of the table, closest to the moderator. The other four panelists had answered the question and I said, &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to answer the question because I think the question is stupid.&#8221; The moderator was a bit shocked. Perhaps you can guess that I seldom concern myself with such concepts as, &#8220;If I say this will I be invited back?&#8221;. I&#8217;m a bit proud of the fact that no one will ever be able to accuse me of being hard to read.<\/p>\n<p>I believe that asking the right question can lead to a correct and useful answer. I also believe that asking the wrong question can be destructive. Just asking a question can cause damage? Absolutely. For example, the question, <em>&#8220;What is wrong with me&#8221;<\/em> or any of it&#8217;s thousands of variations is never a good question. Never. That doesn&#8217;t stop millions of people from walking around and asking this of themselves on a daily basis. They may have varied the question but it is nevertheless that question in one of it&#8217;s many guises. <em>How can I improve this situation? How can I make this area better?<\/em> are not the same sort of question and I hope you can discern the difference. The problem of <em>&#8220;What&#8217;s wrong with me?&#8221;<\/em> (or any variation) is that one tends to start a list of possible items. Then they can indicate these various items to themselves. They may even &#8220;get help&#8221; from others who can also indicate their various wrongness to them. Just based on how much this &#8220;improvement technique&#8221; is practiced in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/2237\/i-didnt-like-the-question\/#more-2237\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few weeks ago I was part of a &#8220;Surviving In This Market&#8221; panel. I have been a part of this sort of thing many times, locally and nationally. A few minutes into the program I found myself irritated at the question being asked. I usually don&#8217;t even read the questions provided beforehand as I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,10],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2237","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"hentry","6":"category-general","7":"category-realty-reality","9":"no-featured-image"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1492,"url":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/1492\/there-is-no-joy-in-blogville\/","url_meta":{"origin":2237,"position":0},"title":"There is no joy in Blogville","author":"Brian Brady","date":"June 1, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"This title is a take-off on the famous baseball poem, Casey at the Bat, by E.L. 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