{"id":440,"date":"2006-09-26T11:13:47","date_gmt":"2006-09-26T18:13:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/?p=440"},"modified":"2006-09-26T11:13:51","modified_gmt":"2006-09-26T18:13:51","slug":"blogoff-post-63-divorcing-couples-need-togetherness-on-sale-of-house","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/440\/blogoff-post-63-divorcing-couples-need-togetherness-on-sale-of-house\/","title":{"rendered":"Blogoff Post #63: Divorcing couples need togetherness on sale of house . . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is a special favorite from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/AZRep.php?Gfile=AZRepublic\/125.php\" target=\"_blank\">my <i>Arizona Republic<\/i> column<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Consider this: I walk into a home, escorting buyers. In the living room there are two pieces of furniture: a big-screen television and a lawn chair.<\/p>\n<p>The bedrooms are empty, except for the master bedroom, where there is a bare mattress. In the kitchen, there are dirty dishes in the sink and half-empty takeout containers and beer in the fridge.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a divorce, of course. Mom and the kids are gone. Dad got custody of the TV.<\/p>\n<p>It would be funny if it weren&#8217;t so nakedly tragic.<\/p>\n<p>I get paid to hear the stories that empty houses whisper. This house tells me not just about the divorce, but that the divorce isn&#8217;t a relatively smooth one. It hints that the house is in pre-foreclosure or is for sale by a judge&#8217;s orders.<\/p>\n<p>It confides in the certitude of silence that my buyers can steal it for tens of thousands of dollars less than market value.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Ack! Mom and Dad own a very valuable asset. What should they do to protect their money?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Frankly, both of them should move out, leaving the home vacant. If one is to stay, then they should agree to leave the furniture behind &#8212; and clothes in the closets. I should not be able to tell that the sellers are divorcing.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the takeaway point: &#8220;It&#8217;s sad the marriage didn&#8217;t work out. But properly staging the home for sale can at least help to pay for a happier divorce.&#8221;<br \/>\n<!-- technorati tags start --><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:right;font-size:10px;\">Technorati Tags: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.technorati.com\/tag\/arizona\" rel=\"tag\">arizona<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.technorati.com\/tag\/arizona real estate\" rel=\"tag\">arizona real estate<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.technorati.com\/tag\/phoenix\" rel=\"tag\">phoenix<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.technorati.com\/tag\/phoenix real estate\" rel=\"tag\">phoenix real estate<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.technorati.com\/tag\/sellsius 101\" rel=\"tag\">sellsius 101<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.technorati.com\/tag\/real estate\" rel=\"tag\">real estate<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.technorati.com\/tag\/real estate marketing\" rel=\"tag\">real estate marketing<\/a><\/p>\n<p><!-- technorati tags end --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a special favorite from my Arizona Republic column: Consider this: I walk into a home, escorting buyers. In the living room there are two pieces of furniture: a big-screen television and a lawn chair. The bedrooms are empty, except for the master bedroom, where there is a bare mattress. In the kitchen, there [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-440","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"hentry","6":"category-marketing","7":"category-real-estate","9":"no-featured-image"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":16993,"url":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/16993\/divorcing-couples-need-togetherness-on-sale-the-sale-of-their-house\/","url_meta":{"origin":440,"position":0},"title":"Divorcing couples need togetherness on sale the sale of their\u00a0house.","author":"Greg Swann","date":"September 12, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"We plant the seed of love and it takes root and grows toward the sun, a straight, proud, sturdy tree. That's the hope, anyway. Sometimes, alas, the sapling of love withers and dies. Pulling it up by the roots can occasion no end of problems, but the real-estate problem may\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Flourishing&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Flourishing","link":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/category\/flourishing\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/hutomo-abrianto-p5CFpOiYweU-unsplash-480x320.jpg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":724,"url":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/724\/ask-the-broker-giving-the-bum-the-bums-rush\/","url_meta":{"origin":440,"position":1},"title":"Ask the Broker: Giving the bum the bum&#8217;s rush . . .","author":"Greg Swann","date":"December 1, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"What do you do when the dual owner of a house refuses to leave or cooperate after signing the purchase and sale and a document to agree to sell the house? This is a nasty divorce situation. 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