{"id":7958,"date":"2009-04-18T12:55:47","date_gmt":"2009-04-18T19:55:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/?p=7958"},"modified":"2009-04-18T12:55:47","modified_gmt":"2009-04-18T19:55:47","slug":"sometimes-its-good-to-go-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/7958\/sometimes-its-good-to-go-home\/","title":{"rendered":"Sometimes It&#8217;s Good to Go Home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just returned from a brief respite &#8211; short of 2 weeks &#8211; in Dallas.\u00a0 I went home.<\/p>\n<p>I needed to get away from the day-to-day grind that my life had become, seemingly caught up in the negative energy that seems to have taken over.\u00a0 My dad just had knee replacement surgery and I thought it would be a great opportunity to help out and reconnect with my folks, my brother and his family.\u00a0 I also wanted to spend some time refocusing my efforts on my business plan to create a web-based community for do-it-yourself buyers and sellers of real estate as well.\u00a0 I had a full plate.<\/p>\n<p>While I did get a plan down on paper regarding my new business idea, I realized I accomplished so much more &#8211; quite honestly, it was a significantly more valuable exercise.<\/p>\n<p>I became grounded again.<\/p>\n<p>Ever feel like you&#8217;ve lost your mojo?\u00a0 Needless to say, many of us are facing really troubling circumstances, but it so important to keep perspective on our lives.\u00a0 Sometimes when we take a brief moment in time to step away from our crazy lives, we get to experience timeless treasures.<\/p>\n<p>I consider myself blessed to have wonderful, loving parents.\u00a0 My folks are getting older &#8211; edging into their late 70&#8217;s.\u00a0 Still in great health and active, but beginning to show the signs of lives entering into dusk.\u00a0 I wanted to be around to help out &#8211; let my mom have some time to do her own thing.\u00a0 Just be there.<\/p>\n<p>But something both unsettling and comforting at the same time happened.\u00a0 I saw for perhaps the first time my dad completely vulnerable.\u00a0 This is a man that never cracked.\u00a0 A West Point Grad &#8211; a man who served his country.\u00a0 Raised 7 seven kids.\u00a0 Proud, disciplined, smart, kind, but a tough son-of-a-bitch.\u00a0 He&#8217;s mellowed over the years for sure &#8211; but my brothers and sisters and I often laugh that he&#8217;s gone from a Type A++ personality to maybe an A-.\u00a0 The surgery seemed to have broken him &#8211; just a bit.\u00a0 I wasn&#8217;t prepared to see him like that.\u00a0 I felt like I <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bloodhoundrealty.com\/BloodhoundBlog\/7958\/sometimes-its-good-to-go-home\/#more-7958\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just returned from a brief respite &#8211; short of 2 weeks &#8211; in Dallas.\u00a0 I went home. 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